A neutral pair: a bond shaped by effort
Chinese astrology sees no special harmony or conflict between the Ox and the Rabbit. That means the direction of the relationship depends largely on the effort and communication of the two people. Shared interests and mutual respect strengthen this bond; coming to it without preconceptions is the key to this match.
Find a shared goal or hobby; neutral ground takes on colour through what you build together.
The Ox in love
- Patient
- Hardworking
- Reliable
- Honest
- Resilient
- Stubborn
The Ox shows love through calm, steady attention. It takes relationships seriously; marriage and starting a family are a long-term responsibility to it. Although it struggles to express its feelings, its loyalty is beyond question. It can be jealous or stubborn; once it learns to talk with its partner and be flexible, the relationship gains a very solid footing. It is traditionally compatible with the Snake and Rooster and may experience friction with the Goat and Horse.
The Rabbit in love
- Gentle
- Graceful
- Diplomatic
- Intuitive
- Cautious
- Artistic
In love the Rabbit is a tender, romantic partner who seeks harmony. A peaceful home and mutual kindness matter a great deal to it, and harsh arguments wear it down. When it feels emotionally secure, it is extremely loyal and attentive. Because it avoids conflict, problems sometimes build up without being discussed. It is compatible with the Goat, Pig and Dog and may struggle with the Rooster and Dragon.
Compatibility here is based on the animals of the two birth years. A full reading also looks at the elements and the month, day and hour pillars, so treat it as a starting point.