A neutral pair: a bond shaped by effort
Chinese astrology sees no special harmony or conflict between the Ox and the Monkey. That means the direction of the relationship depends largely on the effort and communication of the two people. Shared interests and mutual respect strengthen this bond; coming to it without preconceptions is the key to this match.
Find a shared goal or hobby; neutral ground takes on colour through what you build together.
The Ox in love
- Patient
- Hardworking
- Reliable
- Honest
- Resilient
- Stubborn
The Ox shows love through calm, steady attention. It takes relationships seriously; marriage and starting a family are a long-term responsibility to it. Although it struggles to express its feelings, its loyalty is beyond question. It can be jealous or stubborn; once it learns to talk with its partner and be flexible, the relationship gains a very solid footing. It is traditionally compatible with the Snake and Rooster and may experience friction with the Goat and Horse.
The Monkey in love
- Clever
- Creative
- Witty
- Curious
- Cunning
- Adaptable
In love the Monkey is playful, witty and curious, and never lets a relationship get dull. It looks for a partner it connects with intellectually. Getting bored quickly and having many interests can make it hesitant to commit. When it communicates honestly, it becomes a loyal and fun partner. It is compatible with the Rat, Dragon and Snake and may experience friction with the Tiger and Pig.
Compatibility here is based on the animals of the two birth years. A full reading also looks at the elements and the month, day and hour pillars, so treat it as a starting point.