A trine: two souls who speak the same language
The Rat and the Dragon belong to the same group of three (San He) in Chinese astrology. Animals in this group see the world from a similar place: their values, goals and pace of life are close. Together they rarely need long explanations; when one starts an idea, the other naturally completes it. The great strength of this pairing is the ability to unite around a shared purpose.
Don't let the ease of it turn into complacency; keep surprising each other and setting new goals together.
The Rat in love
- Clever
- Adaptable
- Enterprising
- Observant
- Calculating
- Eager
In love the Rat is loyal and protective, but it needs to see trust before it opens up emotionally. It values a well-run home, shared plans and mutual faithfulness in a relationship. It makes sacrifices for the one it loves; when it feels neglected, though, it withdraws and can turn critical. Compatibility with the Dragon, Monkey and Ox is traditionally high; with the Horse, core expectations often clash.
The Dragon in love
- Charismatic
- Ambitious
- Energetic
- Generous
- Proud
- Impatient
In love the Dragon is generous, passionate and protective, bringing great energy and showy enthusiasm to a relationship. It expects admiration and loyalty from its partner and finds it hard to take criticism. While it is warm with everyone around it, setting its ego aside in a close relationship can be difficult. It is highly compatible with the Rat, Monkey and Rooster and may experience a clash of values with the Dog.
Compatibility here is based on the animals of the two birth years. A full reading also looks at the elements and the month, day and hour pillars, so treat it as a starting point.